Is Having Sex Boring

 

It frequently is and can be. Any of the following factors, whether they apply to a man or a woman, can be much more nuanced than I describe or combined with europe sex movies other factors. I'm merely illustrating a few instances in which sex can be monotonous for one or both participants, regardless of gender.

1. Your regular partner follows a routine: He stimulates Body Part A, followed by Body Part B, then C, and so on. His method of making love rarely alters, and neither are there any surprises. Above all, this is not the order of events you would pick. Or, if your partner is female, she needs to be touched in a certain way, at a certain place, and for a certain period of time in order to experience orgasm. This focused partner stimulation can be, well, boring, especially if you've already arrived. Possible response: Declare that you will be hosting the event this evening, and then carry it out using a different schedule. Maybe include a vibrator to make stimulation more immediate and brief. Introduce a new idea that you'd like to try. Change things up to give your partner a chance to learn something new or to unwind and enjoy it when you occasionally take the lead in the dance.

2. You two have been engaging in the same behavior with one another for a very long time. You have chosen a set of actions that benefit both of you, or at least one of you. Even the most exciting events can become monotonous if there are no surprises or changes to the place, time, specific activities, or partner. An option is to pick a time when you are both available for a crucial conversation and offer some suggestions, such as, "Would you like to have sex outside?" or "I'd love to take a bath with you. How do you feel? If your recommendations are rejected, you'll just have to surprise your partner with something new and hope for the best.

3. Your needs are not being met. You either haven't asked for, say, anal play with your partner or you have and they aren't interested. Oh, and you're in a monogamous relationship, so you can't do that particular activity somewhere else. Possible response: Purchase a book or rent a video about your fantasy pursuit. See what you can negotiate after explaining how important this thing, or whatever it is, is to you and asking your partner to read it or watch it with you.

4. Your partner, whom you adore, is not physically similar to you. You have fantasies about someone who is big this or small that, hairy where s/he is smooth, or of a completely different body type. Your romantic interests and your fantasies simply don't align. Possible solution: if your partner is unable to play along, you can watch videos of your ideal while you masturbate, such as shaving your pubic area or donning a wig. If none of these ideas satisfy your craving, you might think about requesting from your partner a "hall pass" for a single encounter with your ideal partner.

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